Discipline

Discipline as defined from dictionary.com:


Main Entry: 1 dis·ci·pline
Pronunciation: \ˈdi-sə-plən\
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Anglo-French & Latin; Anglo-French, from Latin disciplina teaching, learning, from discipulus pupil
Date: 13th century
1 : punishment
2 obsolete : instruction
3 : a field of study
4 : training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character
5 a : control gained by enforcing obedience or order b : orderly or prescribed conduct or pattern of behavior c : self-control
6 : a rule or system of rules governing conduct or activity


So as you can imagine, having a total of 6 kids all together (even though 2 are in a different state, doesn't mean that discipline does not come into play) one can see how important this simple looking word can be. Yet in the trenches of parenthood, this one word can lead to a situation that can sometimes seem like a grenade going off. Lets just say my 10 year old gave me good reason when he was probably 3 or 4 years old to purchase and read Dr. Dobson's revised edition of "The Strong Willed Child".

We all know every child is different. To say that seems silly, we are ALL different. Some more passive, some more agressive.. some more patient.. some more trusting.. some more passionate... I believe God places different things in each of us for HIS glory and HIS purpose. I also believe that as a parent it is my responsibility to instill discipline in their lives. As frustrating as it may be at times, as time consuming, and geez just to be honest... as much of a huge pain in the butt it may be... as the definition shows: it is from instruction; training that corrects, molds, perfects moral character...

And as the Bible puts it in Proverbs 3:11 "My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline and do not resent his rebuke. (12) because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in."

When I look at discipline this way, I have to admit there are issues the Lord has had to repeat himself to me with his instruction... guess I kinda get where my kids get it from ;0)

Praise God that his mercies are renewed every morning... FOR ALL OF US!!!